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Your Life, Your Happiness

No one else is responsible for your livelihood but……YOU!

To be a broken, unhappy, bitter person, that is expecting others to be held accountable for your happiness, is like asking someone to go to work for you and you get the paycheck…ABSURD!

Last week Friday as I was jamming to music, I realized that too many of us are dependent on a set of circumstances, a day of the week or others to make us happy. I asked myself WHY????

The unfortunate reality is so many individuals are living their life in just that way.

Well, I’m here to tell you to STOP IT!!! Let’s stop the pity party and let’s get to thinking and being positive and productive.

Now, your life is your own, so I can’t tell you how to live it, but I can encourage and inspire you on how to love it a little more each day. The first step is forgiveness….yep Forgive…Forgive your mother for not loving you the way you needed to be loved. Forgive your exes for cheating, forgive your friends and family for not being more supportive, and more importantly forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for believing the lies that you were not good enough and undeserving of love, success, and happiness. Because GUESS WHAT…YOU ARE DESERVING and WORTHY of every GREAT thing in this life.

Changing a broken, unhealthy mindset is not easy, but it’s well worth it. It will require investing in yourself, spending quality time alone with you,  to get in tune with who you really are and what you really want out of life. It will mean taking a chance on yourself and your happiness, exploring endless possibilities. It will also take going into your deepest thoughts that only you and God know about and living your dreams out. And last but certainly not least, establishing YOUR OWN personal relationship with Christ Jesus.

You can not expect anyone to appreciate you if you don’t appreciate and value yourself. So don’t count yourself out, don’t give up on your dreams, and turn that passion and hobby into something prosperous and profitable.

When you learn to dance and sing like no one’s watching, laugh like your life depends on it, and take chances like there’s no tomorrow, you will never be disappointed in yourself again. Because you would have started living life on your own terms and taking your happiness into your own hands.

REMEMBER: Happiness is not something you can buy, earn or find online, it’s something that you should seek diligently within yourself.

REMEMBER: Happiness is not something you can buy, earn or find online, it’s something that you should seek diligently within yourself. -Listiner Inspires Happiness Is You-The Healing & Hope Journal

 So, starting now. Love yourself And Be Happy:) 

Listiner Inspires Writes & Creates Content Listiner Inspires is an author that uses her God-given gift of creating content to inspire and empower individuals who have gone through trauma & abuse to move beyond the trauma and into their HEALING & TRAUMA RECOVERY, for a chance to live an abundant & confident life! For more tips, insights, and strategies, go check out her website:

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